A Simple Tip to Start Conversations With Women
Have you ever seen a women you’d like to approach but just couldn’t think of what you would say?
Your mind just went blank as you stood there wishing you could say something before it was too late.
However, there’s a simple fix.
First, let me just say that women love being approached and talked to.
Even if they are not interested, it makes them feel great when a guy speaks to them.
Why did I bring this up?
Well, a main concern for guys is fear of rejection.
How will she act?…
Will she treat me bad?…
What if she gets dramatic?…
Relax my friend, all of these are unlikely to happen.
It is far more likely that she’ll feel great simply because you approached her.
So now let’s move on to starting a conversation.
It’s actually pretty simple…
First, you simply say one word.
This word automatically gets the attention of people.
It works great at starting conversations with women who’s name you obviously don’t know yet.
Once you have her attention, you comment on the situation.
What do I mean?
Where are you guys?
The library, a supermarket, a bar?
You have to read the situation a little bit.
What exactly is she doing?
Now, this doesn’t mean to stare at her for an hour like a creepy guy.
Just get an idea of what she’s up to or thinking.
Let me give you an example of how I would go about it…
The situation: Girl at Starbucks, sitting alone, reading something on her phone.
I’ll walk up and say “Hey!”
She’ll probably look at me confused or intrigued…
I’ll smile and say “How’s the coffee today?”
After she responds, I’ll make conversation.
“Well I hope my coffee is good, I had a long night. Are you on break from work or just having some chill out time to yourself?”
After she responds, I’ll say:
“You seem fun to talk to, I’ll join you when I grab my coffee if you promise to behave yourself”, and then smile at her.
Be a little fun and show you have a sense of humor.
This will lead her to believe that you’re a normal guy who can start a conversation and would make good company.
Pretty simple, right?
One of two things will happen here:
1) She’ll say “OK, sounds good”
2) She’ll say “no”.
Is it the end of the world if she says no? No.
Will your life change in any way? No.
Does it matter why she said no? No.
There are unlimited reasons for a woman saying no.
- she has a boyfriend
- she’s mad
- her best friend talked bad about her behind her back
- her boss is being a jerk
Again, the reasons are unlimited.
Women are EMOTIONAL creatures.
She can’t respond to you in a good way if she’s going through a negative moment in life.
This is why fear of rejection is silly.
How can she reject you if she doesn’t know you?
So that’s it, that’s all you have to do.
This will work WAY better than anything else.
Women HATE pickup lines.
They make you appear weak and inexperience with dating.
She wants a guy to approach her in a NORMAL way and stay a regular conversation.
If you can’t think of anything to comment on after you say “hey!”, then give her a genuine compliment.
Don’t say “hey, you’re pretty”.
She’s probably heard that 834,534,119 times in her life.
Say something she doesn’t hear often.
“That color really compliments your skin tone, do you have a lot of clothes in that color?”
Bonus: Your tone and body language will communicate A LOT more than your words.
Speak slowly, calmly, and loud enough for her to hear you clearly.
No shouting necessary.
If you make a commitment to approach woman and just say “Hey!” and then comment on anything…
You’ll be really surprised at just how approachable woman can be.
…and remember, women love when you approach them!
You won’t believe the stories I hear of attractive women who NEVER get approached, just stared at.
Come on man, just walk over and say “hey”.