She Wants Space
So she asked you for “space”, huh?
Don’t worry about it, you’re not alone.
This happens to men all over the world every day.
Relationships can take you on a roller coaster ride.
One day everything is up, the next day things begin going down.
The moment she tells you “I need space” is the FIRST sign that things are beginning to go down.
As soon as you hear those 3 words, it’s BAD news.
When your girlfriend reaches this point, it means that she feels better when she’s not around you.
The reason that YOU lead her to this point could be any of these:
1) You hurt her emotionally
2) She’s bored with the relationship
3) She feels the relationship isn’t going anywhere
The list of reasons is endless.
The important thing isn’t why she wants space.
Listen good to what I’m about to tell you next because it’s going to save your relationship…
What’s important is that you actually give her space.
When a woman wants space, the WORST thing you can do is try to convince her that it isn’t necessary.
Doing this will ONLY pushing her way even more.
Look man…I get it, you love her and she makes you happy.
You’re scared to give her space because you miss her and fear that she might be hanging out with other guys.
But listen to me because I’ve been helping man with this for over 10 years…
As much as it hurts, you need to respect what she wants and give her space.
How long do you need to leave her alone for?
As long as it takes for her to come back to you.
It might be a couple days, or it might be longer.
Don’t worry about when she’ll come back.
Instead, start doing other things that you like and enjoy.
Have fun and focus on improving yourself.
Workout a little more than usual, start a new hobby, buy something that will bring you happiness, hang out with friends, and so on.
Whatever you do, DO NOT stay in the house because all you’re going to do is think about her.
Right now you’re probably thinking:
“Yes! That’s exactly what’s happening to me now. I think about her ALL THE TIME!”.
Well, if you want to MAXIMIZE the chances of her coming back, don’t contact her.
Space means space!
It doesn’t mean “Call me every day just to see how I’m doing”.
Calling or texting her to try and get her to come back will only annoy her and ruin the chances of saving your relationship.
Why does giving her space work?
It allows one very important thing to happen…
She gets the chance to miss you.
It allows her to think about the relationship and reasons why she should come back.
Read that last sentence again.
This is good because if she really loves you, she’ll come back.
If she doesn’t, then what are you really losing?
Think about that for a moment…
How Long Before You Call Her
My rule of thumb is that you shouldn’t call her.
If she asked for space, you should give it to her.
She should contact you when she’s ready to talk.
However, I’ll say this…
It’s OK to contact her two weeks after she asks for space just to say hello and see how she’s doing.
…But that’s it!
No long phone conversations!
No asking what she’s been up to!
No asking to hang out and talk!
You ask how’s she’s been and say bye.
This shows you care about her, but also that you’re respecting her request of space.
Does that make sense?
If more than a month goes by and she doesn’t suggest meeting to talk, then it’s a sign that you have to prepare to let her go.
These things happen, man.
The roles might be reversed one day.
You might be the one telling a woman that you need space.
Things change, and so do people.
You might feel one way about someone today, and completely different tomorrow.
Sure, you can tell yourself:
“Well, what’s the point then? I’ll stay single forever. Why even risk falling for someone who might end up leaving?”
Well, that’s one way to go about it and risk never meeting a great woman.
…Or you can bite the bullet, act like a man, put yourself out there and accept that you might be disappointed from time to time.
Life is all about risk.
You risk your life when your drive.
You risk your life when you go on a roller-coaster.
Why do you take the risks?
Because the benefits outweigh anything that can go wrong.
And that’s exactly what meeting a great woman is all about.
You take the risk of ending up disappointed because the reward is meeting a great woman who is perfect in every way.
The moral of the story is that if she wants space, you MUST give it to her.
If she comes back, she comes back.
If she doesn’t, you move on.
After all, if you guys were REALLY meant to be together…Wouldn’t you be?
– Alexander Writer
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