Each day that goes by, more and more men are becoming dependent of the internet.
They either approach women through one of the social media websites, or even worse, they settle for watching porn and never talk to them.
Well, unless you plan on watching porn for the rest of your life and sitting alone at home instead of having a pretty lady over to keep you company, this article is for you.
And if you’re only method of meeting women is social media, it’s time for a change.
Women get endless messages on social media all day from guys trying to date them.
I’m not saying it’s impossible to meet someone online, it’s just a bad idea to make it your only method.
With that said, let’s get into the real way to meet more women.
First off, it’s important to understand that they enjoy being approached.
They want to, need to, and LOVE to be noticed.
Even if she has a boyfriend, husband, girlfriend, special friend…it doesn’t matter.
The simple fact is that if you approach her, you’re likely to make her feel good about herself.
So if you fear approaching women, understand that you lose WAY more by not doing so.
You don’t make her feel good about herself and you lose all possible chance of dating her.
Do you want to live the rest of your life with those kind of results?
I don’t think so.
Now, let’s go over where and how to meet more women.
First things first, understand that you can meet them just about anywhere.
The gas station, the supermarket, the park, the gym, the mall, a party, and so on.
Pretty much anywhere a human can survive serves as an opportunity/place for you to meet women.
…What does this mean?
You always have to be ready.
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And by ready I mean you always look presentable.
This doesn’t mean you have to wear your best outfit everywhere you go.
It means you should always look the best possible for the occasion.
So let’s say you’re going to the gym.
Make sure you’re not wearing a t-shirt with holes in it, shoes that are filthy, or shorts that you haven’t washed in days.
Always wear clean and presentable clothes, no matter where you go and what you’ll be doing.
It’s not what you’re wearing, it’s how it looks. (And smells)
Next, your own personal hygeine is vital.
Make sure you keep your haircut neat, no matter how short or long you have it.
If you have a beard, keep it even and trimmed.
Pay attention to your fingernails and toenails and keep them short and clean.
Make it a habit to always be on top of your personal hygiene.
Make sure you take care of your teeth and that your breath is always fresh.
Brush your teeth before going out and make sure you use a tongue scraper to remove any junk stuck on your tongue that sits there daily, rots, and makes your mouth smell like garbage.
Now let’s talk about how to approach women no matter what the place.
The best way is to simply go up to her and say “Hi.”
Then, make a comment on the situation.
So let’s say I’m at the gym hitting the punching bag and I notice the cute brunette by herself.
I’ll simply walk over, say “Hi”, and ask her how her workout is going.
No childish pickup lines.
No cool and suave words.
…Just normal conversation.
I’ll listen and respond to her answer.
After a couple minutes of small talk, I’ll ask her to go get a smoothie after our workout or setup a date for another time.
One of two things will happen:
1) She’ll say yes!
2) She’ll say no!
Whatever she responds doesn’t matter.
Because the fact is that there are another million women just like her waiting to be approached.
And the more you approach, the higher your chances of meeting one you really like.
Women can say ‘no’ for countless reasons:
- She has a boyfriend
- She’s not into guys
- She just got out of a relationship
- She’s moving out of the state
- She’s lost if life and a guy is the last thing on her mind
The list is endless.
And it’s for this reason why you should NEVER worry about why a woman rejects you.
It’s silly to take it personal.
What you need to worry about is approaching them more often to increase your chances of success.
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The only real way to meet more women is by actually approaching them.
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Guys have made themselves believe that something crazy or bad will happen if and when they approach women.
What if her boyfriend is near by and shoots me?
What if she screams?
What if she rejects me and everyone laughs?
The reality is that the chances of any of these things happening is so small that it’s ludicrous not to approach women because of them.
Let me say it again…
Women want and like to be approached.
And as long as your appearance is presentable, you go up to her to say hi, and start a normal conversation; your chances of success increases dramatically.
You might find this hard to believe, but many women don’t get approached.
You’ll hear them say things like “Yeah, guys look at me but never say anything.”
I’m sure you’ve heard them say how they’re attracted to confident men.
How confident do you think you appear if you have the balls to go up to her, say hi, and risks her rejecting you?
Mix that with a presentable appearance, decent conversation skills, and my friend, trust me when I tell you that you won’t be able to keep up with the amount of women you’ll meet.
…No matter who you are.
I’ve seen a lot of women date guys they once said wasn’t their “type.”
…And you know why?
My guess is that the guy had balls, took charge like a man, and approached her.
He saw something he wanted and went after it.
And that kind of attitude and confidence is something most women find irresistible.
So let’s recap:
1) Present yourself with clean clothes and good hygiene
2) Say ‘Hi’ and comment on the situation
3) Set up a date after a few minutes of small talk
4) Learn from each approach and repeat
You do this everyday and I absolutely guarantee you’ll have a date in no time.
The more you do it, the better you’ll get at approaching and reading women.
You’ll unconsciously develop ways to make your approach better, talk to her, and setup a date.
Eventually, approaching them will become second nature and you’ll find yourself talking to new women all the time.
If you’re new to this, know that you’re going to have fear when it’s time to approach.
It’s just your subconscious-mind making you believe it’s a bad idea.
It’s your self-imposed limiting beliefs that run your mind and do a great job at convincing you that you can’t have the things you want.
Well, I’m here to tell you that YOU CAN AND DESERVE TO HAVE WHATEVER YOU WANT.
Don’t listen to your mind.
Don’t let fear (false evidence appearing real) stop you.
Push through and go talk to her.
Everything else will take care of itself.
If she accepts your date invitation, great.
If she says no, smile and walk away.
It’s that simple.
No matter what happens, you’ll earn her respect for approaching her.
And who knows, maybe one day she’ll come up to you, explain why she said ‘no’, and ask you if the date offer is still on the table.
Life is crazy that way sometimes, my friend. 😉
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