So here you are…
Dating a girl you really like.
Everything is going great except for one thing:
You don’t trust her.
There can be a thousand different reasons for this.
Maybe she’s flirty.
Maybe she’s really attractive and gets hit on a lot.
Maybe you lack self-confidence and feel that she’ll want someone “better”.
Whatever the reason, the fact is that you don’t trust her.
And it’s more than a fact; it’s turning into a problem.
You get mad when she is out with friends.
You don’t like her going places without you.
You feel insecure when she’s not around and wonder what she’s doing.
…and so on.
First of all, understand one thing:
A relationship without trust is pointless.
If you don’t trust her, then what’s the point?
You don’t have faith in her.
Why are you wasting your time?
You’re going to drive yourself CRAZY worrying daily.
Second of all, if a woman is destined to cheat on you…she will.
Whether she cheats on you while out with her friends, at work, or with some guy who comes to see her when you’re not around…
She’ll cheat on you.
Why is this important to know?
Because if a woman wants to cheat, she’ll find a way.
There’s really no way to prevent it.
And if you think controlling and telling her not to go out is going to work…
Hell, if anything, it’s going to increase the chance of her cheating.
Because she’ll be turned off by your lack of confidence and insecurity.
She wants a man, not an insecure boy who’s scared to lose her.
This is something that I talk about inside my book.
There’s a HUGE difference between wanting a woman and needing her.
When you have fear of losing a woman, she knows it.
…and she sure as hell does NOT find it sexy.
So what do you do?
You want to trust her, but don’t know how.
Well, unfortunately the only option you have is to get over it.
Well, you also have the option of breaking up with her but I’ll explain below why that’s a dumb idea.
This is something EVERY guy in a relationship must accept.
You risk wasting your time dating her because she might disappoint you.
But that’s what a relationship is all about!
You have faith things will work.
If they don’t, you accept it and move on.
But you can’t live your whole life in fear and not trusting your girlfriend.
You’ll never have a normal relationship that way.
All you’re going to do is push her away.
And breaking up with her is only going to lead her to date someone else.
How do you think that’s going to make you feel?
You broke up with your girlfriend because you thought she was cheating, you didn’t have any proof, and now she’s with someone else.
Do you see where this is headed if you don’t stop worrying?
If you really like her and she hasn’t given you a VALID reason not to trust her, it’s time you get over it.
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