Here’s a list of things you should always be on top of: Replace socks every 6-8 weeks. Pour foot powder in shoes and feet to keep them dry and smelling good throughout the day. Shower twice daily and use exfoliating gloves to remove dead skin cells. Iron your clothes. Wear clothes no more than once […]
Archives for 2015
She Won’t Change
I’ve seen the following situation many times: A guy gets involved with a girl who has one thing he doesn’t like. She likes to go out and party a lot. She has a lot of guy friends. She’s flirty and constantly craves attention. …and so on. Of course, no relationship is perfect. However, if a […]
My Definition of Motivation
What’s the best motivation? The one you create for yourself. Only you know what really motivates you. I recommend you spell out the word motivation like I did below. For each letter, write what your gut tells you. What’s in your heart? What really motivates you. Take as long as necessary… M – More […]
Why I Never Quit (and why you shouldn’t either)
I want the best in life. Don’t you? I want to be able to help as many people as possible by contributing. Don’t you? I want to enjoy being “free” and doing what I want, when I want. Don’t you? I want to travel and see the world to have different and beautiful experiences. […]
The Power of Networking
I use to have a VERY limited mindset. Before starting my blog, I would often ask myself: “Why would I start a blog if there’s literally millions of blogs on the internet?” “How would anyone find me?” “How would my writing be different and offer people “value” they can’t get elsewhere?” “Is it even worth […]
When Should You Give Up
Let’s be honest… If you start something and don’t get results, you have to give up at some point. Right? You can’t just keep wasting your time on something that isn’t going anywhere. You should just move on to something else. Maybe this just isn’t for you. Maybe you picked the “wrong thing”. It’s not […]
How Your Mind Gives Up Before Your Body
If you want to make quick progress with your fitness levels, you need to learn to push yourself to exhaustion. Almost 100% of the time, when your mind is telling you you’re tired, you can actually continue for a lot longer. If you’re running and you keep telling yourself: “I’m tired…I should stop…I ran enough”… Don’t […]
How to Get Over Fear of Rejection
Chances are you’re reading this because you have fear of rejection. It’s a very common fear among men when it comes to dating. Maybe you got rejected by a girl once and felt horrible afterwards. Maybe you fear that she’ll make you feel bad about yourself or embarrass you. Whatever may be causing your fear […]
Why I Don’t Depend on Motivation
There appears to be an abundance of motivation today. Audio recordings, videos, and books are available to help motivate you. I believe motivation is good and essential for success, but it isn’t the best option. You see… Motivation only gets you started. But once it runs out, you get tempted to quit or get distracted with […]
You Don’t Trust Her
*If you want to speak to me directly and get my advice on your specific situation, click here to download my book and email me to my secret email address on the last page. I’ll respond within 24-48 hours. So here you are… Dating a girl you really like. Everything is going great except for […]
The Vigorous Worker
There’s two types of people: 1) The average worker 2) The vigorous worker The average worker works until he’s tired. Until his friends call him to go out. …or until he’s bored. The vigorous worker doesn’t stop. Nothing can distract him. If he’s tired, he keeps going. If his friends call him, he responds “some other […]
Your Death Bed
This is a serious exercise that you need to eliminate all distractions for. Make sure you’re alone, phone is turned off, and don’t have any other open tabs on your internet. I did this exercise once and it was intense, but very helpful. Are ready? Let’s begin… For a moment, picture yourself old and almost […]
A Part of You Must Die
In order to change and become something you’ve never been before… A part of you must die. Let me tell you a story. When I was younger, somewhere around age 20, I was one of the biggest procrastinators. I was amazing at finding reasons to do things later. …and with time, I got good at […]
How to Deal With Negative People (a simple and effective trick)
Negative people can be really difficult to deal with. Sometimes you don’t have a choice because they’re co-workers or family. When you see a co-worker five days a week, or have a family member you deeply care about; learning to deal with their negativity can be very helpful. Here’s a simple trick I learned on […]
The Girl at Walgreens Story
When I was 20 years old, I was VERY shy at talking to women. I would make eye contact and look away. I lacked self-confidence. Whenever I would see an attractive girl, I felt like I had no chance with her. It was a horrible feeling of desperation and anxiety. I felt I would eventually […]