Does She Like Me or Not

When you’re really into a girl and she’s giving you mixed signals, it can drive you crazy.

All you want to know is one thing and one thing only: “Does she like me or not?”

Sometimes it can be hard to figure out her true intentions.

But there are clear signs as to whether she likes you or not.

A woman who likes man will tend to play hard to get at times.

However, there’s a difference between playing hard to get and “blowing you off” every time. 

Here’s a perfect example.

If she likes you:

You: “Hey, let’s hang out Friday around 8:00 p.m., I know this great place that serves great Mexican food.”

Her: “I would love to go but I have plans that night, can we do it Saturday night or Sunday?”

Its clear here that she’s NOT blowing you off, she just busy that night.

She’s clearly making effort to see you another time.

If she doesn’t like you:

You: “Hey, let’s hang out Friday around 8:00 p.m., I know this great place that serves great Mexican food.”

Her: “I can’t, sorry”.

The difference is obvious.

A woman who’s into you won’t give you such a vague response.

Moving on…

Just because she hangs out with you does NOT mean she likes you.

You’re only half way there, my friend.

Maybe she sees you as a cool “guy friend”.

Someone fun to hang out with but not someone she’d date.

…and the idea of going out for “free” Italian food sounds better than staying home.

Do you see what I’m trying to say here?

Does this make her a terrible person?

NO.

It’s your job to figure out whether she likes you or not.

So how do you do that?

YOU have to make advances as a man.

What do I mean by advances?

Well…

Grab her hand, hug her, and kiss her.

You don’t have to be all over her the whole time like her clothes, but make a move.

If a woman doesn’t like you, will she let you hold her hand and hug her?

Yeah…maybe.

But would she let you kiss her?

Of course not.

First, you see if she agrees to hang out with you or not.

Next, you make a move and see how she responds.

I’m not suggesting you make a move the moment you see her.

That’s just weird and will probably freak her out.

But there will be PLENTY of opportunities to do so.

If you hang out and she at least kisses you, you know she’s into you.

At this point, you won’t continue asking yourself “Does she like me or not”.

This is the fastest way to KNOW if she likes you.

If you hang out and don’t make a move, there’s no way to know for sure.

If you think she’ll come right out and say it, you’re wrong.

YOU have to figure it out on your own.

You have to be brave and make a move.

If you’ve already hanged out with her but haven’t made a move, do it the next time you see her.

Now remember she might kiss you but not have sex with you.

This is fine.

She’s respecting herself and wants you to do the same because she actually likes you.

However, if you keep going out with her and spending money without even kissing…

You’re basically paying for her time.

Unless you two are “just friends” and YOU are fine with that.

…and remember, if you two are just friends, she should pay for things sometimes as well.

You’re her friend, not her dad.

Remember, until you make a move, there is no other way to learn whether she’s into you or not.

Just because she lets you buy her dinner, it doesn’t mean she likes you.

Just because she invites you over for a movie, it doesn’t mean she likes you.

Just because she lets you spend money on her, it sure as hell does not mean she likes you.

If she kisses you, it won’t make her appear “slutty” and like she doesn’t respect herself.

All it will do is prove that she is in fact into you.

From there on, everything else should fall into place.

Either you make a move, or you keep asking yourself: “Does she like me or not ?”

-Alex

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