Complimenting women can work with you just as well as it can work against you.
It all depends on what you say.
For example, if you tell a beautiful woman that she’s beautiful, you’ll probably not receive the reaction you were hoping for.
Why?
Because she’s probably had people saying that to her DAILY since was a little girl.
She’s heard it so many times that it’s lost it’s magic.
Inside my book Dating Mastery, I teach you how saying or doing predictable things FORCES women to lose interest in you.
By telling a beautiful women that she’s beautiful, not only is it predictable, it actually kind of annoys her.
It’s like eating the exact same thing every day.
It’s predictable and boring!
Now, if she’s your girlfriend or wife, and you tell her something along the lines as “You look more beautiful every day”, then that might work.
But when it’s a woman you recently met, it’s different.
She knows you think she’s beautiful, pretty, cute, sexy, etc.
Why else would she have caught your eye?
Right now you’re probably wondering what you should do or say then.
Is it better not to compliment women?
No.
Complimenting woman can be very powerful.
But there’s a special way to do it that increases her interest in you and makes you stand out from the 300 guys that tell her she’s beautiful every day.
Giving women unique and sincere compliments
The goal is to give her a compliment that feels unique and sincere.
A compliment that’s just for her.
A compliment that you couldn’t tell every woman you meet.
You do this by paying attention to details.
For example, I once told a woman that she dresses very well.
I told her how she does a great job at choosing colors that go great with her skin tone and clothes that compliment her body very well.
I went on to explain how she has a really good sense of style and that it makes her stand out from other women in the room.
She blushed as she said “thank you” and gave me a huge smile.
Do you think she receives compliments like that often?
Of course not.
Now I wouldn’t be able to say that to EVERY woman dresses in a way that goes great with her skin tone or compliments her body.
Does that make sense?
I could only repeat this to a woman who dresses the same way.
Why?
Because it’s the only way to have it come across as unique and sincere.
If your compliment isn’t sincere, it’ll backfire.
It’s like telling a woman who knows she’s overweight that she has the body of a model.
While she might appreciate you trying to be nice to her, the reality is that your insincere comment will work against you.
Pay very close attention to details and find something unique to compliment her on.
Before you compliment her, ask yourself “Has she heard this a million times before?”.
And here’s another little secret of mine that I’m going to share with you just because I’m a generous guy.
Before giving her the compliment, say this:
“You know I noticed something very interesting about you that I’m sure a lot of other people don’t notice”.
99.9% of the time she’ll respond with:
“What?” or “What is it?”
Respond with:
“I’m not going to tell you just yet.”
…And give her a playful smile.
This is one of my BEST dating techniques that works like magic.
The anticipation of not knowing what drives woman crazy. (In a good way)
Some woman will keep asking you until you tell them.
It’s a fun way to tease her, increase her attraction for you, and stand out from other man.
Try it and see for yourself.
You can thank me later.
-Alex Writer
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