“Character” is what defines a man.
Within minutes of meeting and talking to someone new, you learn a lot about them.
However, some things take longer to discover.
Anyone can fake a character at the beginning.
But, with time, their true colors surface and you realize just who they really are.
There’s one trait that will tell you a lot about a person.
Something that separates the men from the boys.
Something that I’m seeing less and less of as I get older.
What is it?
The ability to not judge others.
It’s something incredibly small and simple that goes a long way.
When you’re known as the man who NEVER judges people, you put yourself in a place where people respect and honor you.
It might be fun and games to judge someone and make jokes about them when you’re with your friends, but trust me that you’re not doing yourself any favors.
If someone is severely overweight, don’t judge.
If someone is annoying as hell, don’t judge.
If someone judges others, don’t join them.
If someone judges you, don’t judge back.
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Does that sound like something a real man would do?
HELL NO!
Instead of judging others, focus and worry about your own life and self-improvement.
The only person you should ever judge is yourself.
Period.
Become the man that people acknowledge as “He never says a bad thing about anyone”.
It’ll get you far in life, my friend.
Trust me.
You’re character is something that no one can take away from you.
No one!
It’s something that’s very easy to acquire, but also very easy to lose.
Whenever you feel that you’re about to say something judgemental about someone, don’t.
I see people all the time whom I can say a million things about.
But, who they are and what they do is none of my business.
Therefore, I keep my mouth shut.
Talk soon,
Alexander Writer
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